The Bachelor’s Ali Fedotowsky leaves the Bachelor Jake Pavelka show reportedly due to some work issues.
Ali, 25, is seen by everyone as the potential marriage proposal for Jake, but it seems that things are not going to be as good as they look.
Now drama has creeped into the show. Besides her open dislike for Vienna, it is her departure from the show before the rose ceremony took place that has heated things up.
According to reports, Ali’s company says that she must either give up the reality show or give up her own job as an advertising account manager.
Ali told Jake about it to which Jake said: “Life is about minimizing your regrets. You just have to weigh which one is going to be a bigger regret.”
Ali’s response after coming so far in ths show was shocking, she said: “It’s like the two loves of my life I feel like I have to choose between. If you were mine the choice would be easy. I feel like you’re slipping right through my fingers and I don’t know how to stop you…. I’m so sorry.”
And Ali has gone ahead and left the show. Do you think this was the right thing for Ali to do?
via LAPR
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Of course it was the right thing to do. If Jake was truly in love with her he would take his own words of “minimizing your regrets” and would have canned the rest of the show and picked her before she would have to make that choice. If he is willing to just string her along then it is his regret and not her’s. It’s the old “Poop or get off the can”. He can’t expect her to screw-up her life if she can still be tossed out by him. All this really shows is how much Jake has to grow up himself, it a TV show for a few weeks, the marriage is for the rest of his life.
MISTAKE! Ali came so far, why not stay and see how it plays out? She was by far my favorite, I’m sorry to see her go!
This is not a mistake.
She has to be able to support herself, pay her bills, pay her rent, etc. Without a job, in this economy, that is highly difficult to do. Becoming homeless while waiting for Jake to make up his mind was too large of a gamble. If it was meant to be, then Jake will break up with Vienna and would seek Ali again.
Ali is “crazy” for leaving! Jobs come and go but marriage last a life time. I truely believe they are meant to be together. And Jake seems to have a heart of gold, and super sexy if i might add, lol. Ali may be having second thoughts, if anyone saw next weeks preview. Let her come back Jake, you belong together!
Good choice! She didn’t know if he’d choose her or not. If he decided to go with someone else she would be left with nothing but a broken heart. She’s such a sweet girl she can find another man in an instant.